But it's not.īased on interviews with several gay San Francisco men and visits to local parks, men of all ages are still cruising in the city's outdoor spaces. Now, with more acceptance of gays, and the ease of hooking up via mobile apps like Grindr and websites like Adam4Adam, it may seem like visiting the outdoors for sex is a thing of the past. There were bars or places like city parks, but wherever they went to find each other, there was often a risk of police harassment and arrest. Decades ago, men in San Francisco who wanted to hook up with other men had limited options.